Wedding Favours: Tradition, Trend or Total Waste of Money? What Planners Really Think.
The Sentimental Idea Behind Wedding Favours
Wedding favours started centuries ago as small tokens of appreciation for guests. From sugared almonds to monogrammed trinkets, the tradition was meant to say, "Thank you for celebrating with us." But in 2025, the question is - are they still worth it?
The Harsh Truth: Most Favours Get Left Behind
As a wedding planner, we’ve watched countless guests forget their favours on the table or toss them in the bin the next day. Why?
- They're not practical
- Guests don't have space to take them home
- They don't feel meaningful to them
If you're spending $3-$10 per guest, that can add up to hundreds - or even thousands - of wasted dollars.
When Wedding Favours Do Work
Not all favours are bad. The key is usefulness or personal connection:
- Edible gifts - small jars of local honey, artisan chocolates, or custom cookies
- Eco-friendly keepsakes - seed packets, mini potted plants, reusable tote bags
- Experiential favours - a photo booth print, or a late-night snack to-go
Budget-Friendly Alternatives That Guests Love More
Instead of buying 100+ items, put that money into:
- Upgrading your bar menu
- Adding a dessert station
- Booking live music for cocktail hour
These are things guests will experience in the moment - and remember.
Planner's Verdict
If a wedding favour adds real joy, keeps with your wedding theme, and won't be forgotten at the end of the night - go for it. If not, skip it without guilt.
Thinking about whether favours are worth it for your big day?
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